Defining Firerotic

Venice Beach, CA, August 16th, 2009
Firerotic Massage took on a new meaning upon meeting Desiree Barnes and Blaise Smith. A short lived sexy couple I met on my travels through LA last summer, the 2 fell in hedonist love with my flame techniques. Watching me eat fire, they both immediately asked for fire massages. Those 2 are sexual beings, love the carnality, love sexy and want it in their lives in major ways. As they came over to Sarah’s house early one morning with a bottle of wine, they jumped into the pool nude. I had been hungover and awake for hours, trying to wake up my boyfriend, Asa, for morning sex. As he told me to relax and sleep, I was psyched to be awoken to their skinny dip drunk adventure in the pool. As Asa awoke and Dez shared her morning in bed, I felt necessarily frustrated. When she asked me for a massage, I was jazzed to set up the station next to the collection of beautiful naked bodies I called my circus.
Whoa. Dez immediately started to moan as the fire moved faster and faster around her 2nd chakra. On moments of slow pause she relax, but as soon as Pele’s energy kissed her body, she exuded sexual excitement. ‘ I orgasmed better than I’ve EVER gotten off!” she told the people at the beach later on that day. As women began to come to me to ignite their sexual centers, I focused the fire on the 2nd chakra in sharp swooping strokes, circular churns of the root chakra, and calming flames near the upper meditative vortexes. Yep. It worked. Fire induced orgasms.
While Blaises reaction was very similar to Dez’s, I learned that the massage could strength the sexual center in a variety of different energy strokes, the main one being a hammer like direct line to the 2nd chakra. I also learned that my sexual energy could be expressed through fire, and used as a mechanism to heal. Reflecting on my earlier anger at my partner’s refusal to intertwine physically, I learned that there are many ways for lovers to connect, and in some cases, aggressive intercourse doesn’t serve that purpose; sometimes dreamy sleeps alongside the body brings the same connection.
However, I did learn that that sexual release needs to happen on some level in some way, and it doesn’t have to be sex.